#Leadership: Why it Pays to Be a Jerk…The Hardest Thing that I Struggle to Explain to People is that being a Giver is Not the Same as Being Nice.
The distinction that needs to be made is this: Jerks, narcissists, and takers engage in behaviors to satisfy their own ego, not to benefit the group. Disagreeable givers aren’t getting off on being tough; they’re doing it to further a purpose. Smile at the customer. Bake cookies for your colleagues. Sing your subordinates’ praises. Share credit. Listen. […]